I keep reading about how people who can't handle their money by themselves have come up with a "scared straight" kind of way that works for them. It's a real throwback to a different era that is proving to be very successful today.
Want to know what it is? Pay in cash for whatever you can, using envelopes to divvy up your money and keep you within budget.
Making cash-only work in your life
My executive producer Christa made it clear to me 8 or 10 years ago that she had trouble with money just vanishing out of her life. Then she hit on the idea of putting money into different accounts for different purposes.
Today she has 3 checking accounts and 1 savings account. She has each of her paychecks automatically split among these 4 accounts each month. Christa then uses Mint.com to track her finances online for free. There's also a pay alternative some people like called YouNeedaBudget.com that has a free trial offer.
Unfortunately, I have bad news if you do your banking with either Wells Fargo or Chase. According to The Wall Street Journal, both bank behemoths have moved to block your access to Mint, Quicken and other budgeting sites when you're one of their customers.
Of course, a low-tech way to get a handle on your finances would be the envelope method. You simply take envelopes and write "groceries" on one, "utilities" on another, "walking around money" on a third, whatever it is in your life that requires money.
I often tell couples to do this particular method of budgeting. I once sat down with a couple that had more than $30,000 in credit card debt. We came up with a 30-month plan for them to get out of debt that involved the envelope method. They didn't think it would work, but they extinguished their credit card debt in 21 months!
Debit cards and credit cards can be the Bermuda Triangle of your wallet because it's so easy to lose track of finances when you use them. Last year, a study done by Dun & Bradstreet found that people spend 12% to 18% more at fast-food restaurants when they use plastic instead of cash. I guess when you have that plastic, you're more likely to get a combo instead of ordering off the dollar menu!
That's why I recommend that on payday, you take out the dollar amount you need until next pay period and split it up among your envelopes. When one envelope empties, you either take money from another envelope or you do without until next payday.
This is a simple method that will bring more control to your life than any budgeting tool on the Internet. But whatever method works for you -- be it low tech, high tech or somewhere in between -- is the one I want you to adopt.
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